And may they think if they uttered such, some may mis-coat them or think they are corrupt. Saying these may add knowledge to those who have more and enlighten others as well.
And the Prophet said in an Hadith that: "Say the Truth, even if it is bitter"...
"Allah Says in the Holy Quran Chapter 2 Surah Baqarah verse 223: Your wives are as a tilth unto you; so approach your tilt when or how ye will."
"Abu Dhar al-Ghafari reported: The Messenger of Allah (saws) said: there is a reward for you [even] in sex with your wife." The companions asked: O Messenger of Allah (saws) is there a reward if one satisfies his passion?" He (saws) said: "Do you know that if he satisfies it unlawfully he has taken a sin upon himself? Likewise, if he satisfies it lawfully, he is rewarded."
Related by Ahmad and Muslim.
This is an Important Topic in our lives as MUSLIMS. Insha Allahu, we will leave out Shyness and Enlighten ourselves on this
NOTE: The only QUALIFICATION or CERTIFICATE for sex is MARRIAGE. Any Sex out of Marriage is "ZINA" except with whom your RIGHT Hand possess.
Being an Adult doesn't Mean Sex is your Right except Marriage which is the Only Rightful platform for HALAL SEX (Rightful Sex).
Now, How can we have sex with our Wives according to The SUNNAH ?
The Prophet (saw) is reported by Anas bin Malik to Have said ;
One of you should not fulfill ones (sexual) need from ones wife like an animal rather there should be between them FOREPLAY of kissing and words. Sex without Foreplay is Equated to Cruety. It is the way of Animals.
The Wife also has some needs to be fulfilled. This is where Caressing, Kissing, Sucking the Nipples, Stimulating The Breasts, Fingering and the Likes come in. This is what Foreplay Means.
"But Bare it in mind That ANAL SEX (penetration through the ANUS) is highly forbidden in Islam".
ORAL SEX (Licking the Sex organs) is undesired and Disliked but not HARAM (Forbidden), Oral sex Health-wise could be Dangerous sometimes.
Women have Active and unharmful vaginal bacterials and a Natural pH within their genitals which makes it Not Sound to be licked by the Tongue or Kissed. This Varies from Woman to Woman regarding the Nature and Hygiene Levels.
Fellatio/Fellacio or Sucking of the Male genital by the Woman is also considered Unharmful by Medical practitioners and Acceptable in Islam although opinions Vary in this Regard.
Bathing and being clean (Ghuslul Janabah) is the first thing to consider before carrying on with sex.
Personal Health and Hygiene conditions also counts.
SEX during the Menstruation period of a Woman is HARAM (Forbidden) to the highest level. Sex positions are Also allowed so Far as penetration is in the Vaginal. The doggy, spooning,missionary position and others are all Allowed.
There are no Rules as to how foreplay is to be done. The only laws are the ones reached by the Lovers. The only general rules are those that go against the SHARIAH rules, which goes against wishes of the Husband or the Wife.
As for the Role of A woman in sexual Foreplay, Scholars have praised a Woman who discards Shyness when she is with Her Husband.
Imam Muhammad al Baqir says: "The Best Woman Among You is the one who discards the Armor of Shyness when She is with Her Husband and puts on the Armor of shyness when she dresses up".
If you are a Mualim, Ustaz or an Alfa when it comes to that, forget about Your "Alfa things" and Open Fire on your wife. And The wife shouldn't come near their Husband with "HIJAB or NIQAB" or some rough dressing, cause at that moment or scene those are indecent. "Dress to Kill" your husband in your Home.
Such dresses which exposed your Breasts, Your Backside Shape, Transparent dresses and Tight dresses.
After all, Modesty and Chastity in public is the Hallmark of Muslim ladies, but not in her Husbands Room.
All these Sayings show that, the Husband and Wife Should feel completely free when they are engaged in Mutual Stimulation or FOREPLAY. Wives Should not Just lie down like "A piece of Wood or Snake" but Must be Responsive in Foreplay.
Make Your Husband Enjoy The Woman in you and He will not Go Chasing Others, Likewise is not Recommended to rush in Sex. Mutual pleasure and Satisfaction are also important.
The Shariah Allows lovers to see, Touch, Smell or Kiss any part of the body. Oral sex is also allowed although Disliked.
Some Restrictions in SEX according to Shariah:
** Anal sex is HARAM. My Brother don't go there at all, The front side is enough.
** Sex During Menstrual period. This is also HARAM to the Highest extent. Q2:222.
"And u can meet your wife anytime of the day, be it morning, afternoon, evening and night.Q2:223".
Do you know it's an act of Ibadah, which means You will be rewarded the more you do it.
RECOMMENDED DAYS AND TIMES FOR SEX
We have certain ahadith which say that it is better to have sexual intercourse at these times:
1. Sunday night;
2. Monday night;
3. Wednesday night;
4. Thursday noon;
5. Thursday night;
6. Friday evening;
7. Whenever the wife wants to have sex.
It does no harm by sharing or without sharing but through sharing it would benefit others. It would add knowledge to the wise and they would become wiser and also to seekers of knowledge they would gain wisdom. You can't tell those who take your sap chats for granted.
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